Is Kindness a Turn On?

The other day after getting on the bus to head home, I had just sat down in one of the front seats meant for old and handicapped people when they are on the bus. Since there was neither at the moment, I chose to sit and move if either were to get on at any of the next stops along the trip home. Across from me was an attractive woman headed to the community college for whatever classes she was going to have that day. Seconds later, a passenger was getting on that I recognized as they were a regular. It was obvious that they had a physical problem as they used a walking cane. The second I saw them getting on, I had chosen to relocate to a standing location by the middle door of the bus in order to have a bar or handle to hold on to. The particular passenger ended up sitting in the seat I had just left. Still not sure if they knew I had just moved. While listening to my YouTube Music playlist, I noticed that the attractive woman I had been sitting across from had been looking at me, along with what seemed an attempt to not stare by looking elsewhere. On the same set of seats I left, there was another guy who got up when a woman passenger got on and he let her have his seat. Wasn’t sure how much of it was influenced by me to be “chivalrous”, but that seemed to make the attractive woman more attracted to me as indicated by the way she watching me.

This is what got me started to think and wonder what made the situation attractive to certain people, and if there’s a cut off line if one exists.

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